What would you do if you found out your man was cheating while you were — gasp! — still living together? We didn’t know it before, but we know it now: when Jennifer Aniston discovered then-husband Brad Pitt‘s infidelity with his Mr. & Mrs Smith co-star Angelina Jolie, she kicked him out! So how did this all shake down, and should you pull a Jen?

Although these events are ancient history (Brad and Jen officially broke up back in January of 2005), a new Hollywood insider book is about to come up telling the ‘truth’ of how the golden couple’s divorce went down. Confidential: The Life of Secret Agent Turned Hollywood Tycoon Arnon Milchan is the story according to Arnon Milchan, who watched Brangelina become one, , the New York Post reports.

“Milchan introduced Pitt to Jolie and immediately sensed that there was a spark between them,” the book reads. “A passionate romance ensued, with one slight problem . . . Pitt was married to [Aniston] . . . when Aniston kicked Pitt out of the house, all hell broke loose.

“When I heard that Brad left home . . . I offered that he stay at my house in Malibu. He drove to the set . . . on a motorcycle, and he wore a wrap-around helmet with a tinted visor so no one could recognize him,” Arnon adds.

All these years, Jennifer Aniston has been seen as the victim, as weak-willed and pathetic. Are you feeling differently about her now? It takes a very strong woman to throw the love of her life out of her life.

If your guy is cheating while you’re living together he clearly has no respect for you. Respect, loyalty and honesty are the three most important things in any relationship, and can’t survive without them. Who cares if Angelina was a saucy temptress, or one of the most beautiful women in the world? Brad should have kept it in his pants until he ended his marriage with Jen. Cheating is NOT OK.

Even if Brad did not, I have a new respect for Jen. Some women take pity when they hear their men have been unfaithful and let them live in the same house, despite knowing the relationship is well and truly over. She had the strength to say goodbye. So should you.

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