Courtney used her sex appeal and flirtation techniques to make Ben fall in love with her — but sources close to ‘The Bachelor’ reveal that, for Courtney, it was all a game.
Courtney Robertson seems cold and uncaring as she manipulates Ben Flajnik into giving her his heart on The Bachelor. Sources close to the venomous vixen reveal the heartless tactics Courtney used to trap Ben while filming.
“Courtney looked at The Bachelor as a game,” a source tells Us magazine. “Ben was the prize, and she was going to win.”
Eliminated contestant Monica Spannbauer agrees: “Courtney was going to pull out any gun and any ammo necessary to make this work for her.”
This is how Courtney seduced Ben, according to Us magazine‘s sources:
- Courtney convinced Ben that she hadn’t been lucky in love lately and was ready to fall hard. “She came in and seemed very vulnerable,” an insider explains. “She talked about not getting asked out a lot.” But, another source claims that Courtney always had a boyfriend by her side throughout the 11 years prior to her Bachelor experience.
- She forced herself to start having feelings for Ben so that she wouldn’t lose sight of the prize. “Courtney said the guys she dates have to have status,” says a source. So when she found out that Ben was a self-made millionaire, she used that notion as the key to hold her on track.
- Courtney fed Ben every line in the book. “She knows exactly what to say to guys,” a friend of Courtney’s shares. Courtney has pulled that stunt more than once, especially during the Feb. 20 episode when she told Ben that she was falling in love.
- Courtney kept her enemies (the other women) at bay. “Courtney said her agent prepared her well and told her not to share any personal information with the girls,” the source states. “She kept in her corner the whole time. She never made conversation with the girls.”
- Courtney tried to scare the other girls away from Ben. “Those little jabs were tactics to try to intimidate all of us, to get us off of our game, and to take the focus off of Ben,” says former contestant Emily O’Brien.
- Courtney blinded Ben with her sex appeal. “Courtney knew Ben was sexually attracted to her,” shares contestant Jamie Otis. “She wasn’t shy to use it.”
- She mentally prepared for her attacks. According to Monica, Courtney took “four-hour [naps] before every event.”
- Courtney was aggressive. “[Ben] told Courtney once that she seemed like the only one who cared,” says Emily. “I wish I had been more forward.”
- Courtney dressed — and undressed — the part. “She was very particular about what she wore and when she wore it,” says the source.
But, final-three contender Nicki Sterling thinks that it won’t be long until Ben finds out all about Courtney’s lies. “You can only fool someone for so long before your true colors come out,” she warns.
BFFs — do you think Ben will realize that Courtney lied to him?
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Kathy Bontke
Posted at 12:42 AM on March 21, 2012
Courtney is a definite narcissist person. She’s spoiled and is not happy unless she has attention 24/7. She won’t like living on a Vineyard and Ben said he had to leave many times because of his job and be gone awhile. Courtney will NOT like being alone, nor will she be trusting Ben to not be without her. She trust no one and gets jealous if all attention is not on her. Ben will be marrying a 2 year old tantrum toddler and his life WILL be miserable. This will not last. Ben is ignorant of willful women. Courtney can’t be truthful and Ben wants that. It won’t work at all.
jess
Posted at 6:15 PM on March 19, 2012
look… i like courtney… she knows how to get what she wants. Not all women are like but if you have sex appeal and know how to use it.. then go you.. guys dont like a boring chick, some guys like bold and agressive. at times she was a little too agressive, but it was a “competition” to win a guys heart and courtney did wat she thought was necessary to get it. i do think she really cares for him and those other girls were just not good enough or strong enough to deal with it.. except lindzi and nicky.. i liked both of them and would have loved to see nicky with ben, but courtney played those girls like a fiddle and they dropped like flies.. i would have done it almost the same way, just not as bad as she did
Astraea
Posted at 9:51 PM on March 13, 2012
So she manipulated him, so what? Guys have been manipulating women to get what they want (usually SEX) for ages! If you ask me, any guy who gets played by a woman deserves it.
j
Posted at 9:05 AM on March 10, 2012
Courtney seems a very nice girl and she was sincere with Ben.
She is a very beautiful girl and Ben should treat her right.
The other girls weren’t nice to her at all.That must have been
hard for Courtney to feel she didn’t have many friends in the house. She was there for Ben. Courtney is cute, fun, playful and they missed out on their friendship with her. She was cute as can be around her family where she is loved. God blessed her with good looks.One apology suffices from her.
Emily spent most of her time bashing Courtney as did Kacie B. And they weren’t nice to Shawntel either. Courtney is a doll and she is also a human being with feelings.Courtney
should just not even try to figure it out. They were so obviously jeaulous of her in every way.
j
Posted at 9:00 AM on March 10, 2012
Courtney seems a very nice girl and she was sincere with Ben.
She is a very beautiful girl and Ben should treat her right.
The other girls weren’t nice to her at all.That must have been
hard for Courtney to feel she didn’t have many friends in the house. She was there for Ben. Courtney is cute, fun, playful
and they missed out on their friendship with her. She was cute as can be around her family where she is loved. God blessed her with good looks.One apology suffices.
Emily spent most of her time bashing Courtney as did Kacie B. And they weren’t nice to Shawntel either. Courtney is a doll and she is also a human being with feelings.Courtney
should just not even try to figure it out. They were so obviously jeaulous of her in every way.
blah
Posted at 9:14 PM on March 13, 2012
Hi Courtney. What up?
Cinders
Posted at 1:12 AM on February 28, 2012
All I can say is Ben is dumb, dumb, dumb!!! What a fool….
fewjn
Posted at 1:40 PM on February 23, 2012
Ben is such an idiot…
mgp
Posted at 11:44 PM on February 22, 2012
I think Courtney is a joke…..Ben you really amaze me. If she would do all of these things with you on national television don’t you think she’s been around the block a few times…Who would want her???You have really let some really nice ladies go & still have some nice ladies left…You need to open your heart and eyes….She is another Vienna……You are being played for a FOOL….
susan
Posted at 3:18 PM on February 22, 2012
sorry but when she went skinny dipping with him. i was like dude you really want to be with her. you don’t know her and she is showing you everything. it ok once you get to know each other but sorry you pick her you will get played for the fool you are.
Deanna
Posted at 12:26 PM on February 28, 2012
If Ben could not figure it out that going skinny dipping with someone he really did not know was wrong. How could he be with the other girls after that, and after they find out what happened they should smack him….Then run, do not walk to the Dr…